Modern Dating

The month of hearts is upon us and whether you’re scheduling a surprise with the wife, driving out of town with your significant other, or are taking your boyfriend to your prom, it’s important to keep your heart and mind open. No matter how comfortable you are with your long-term partner, it’s a wonderful practice to make your date—both the person and the event—extra special. After all, Valentine’s Day is approaching and there’s no better time to be more gallant, more considerate, and more adventurous than February.

Regardless of who you’re spending your Valentine’s Day with—a group of single girlfriends, your fiancé, or the whole family, The Blue Leaf wishes you a happy month of love!

When the mood strikes, go for it.
If you’re going back and forth about asking that girl out, or are hesitating whether it’s the right time to ask the busy husband if he’d like to take a leave next Friday, just do it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with letting a certain mood or instinct rule your decision. It is more than likely you will get a yes from your partner—all the better for your Valentine’s Day celebration. And if your plans aren’t as agreeable as you thought they would be, take things lightly and suggest an alternative or ask your partner what they would like to do. Dating involves communication and exchanges, after all.

Explore the unexplored.
Whether this means trying out a restaurant you’ve always been too busy to explore, having a conversation about topics you previously would have considered taboo, or even making a slightly embarrassing confession to your girl friends about who you would like to spend Hearts Day with, take this opportunity to go a step further with your heart.

Keep with the traditions, if it feels right.
There’s no need to go out of your way to hold the door open for someone if it feels unnatural to you. Sure, there is always a certain charm that will come with chivalry, but if anything is too contrived or put on—especially on Valentine’s Day then you may end up ruining the mood. Be aware of the traditions that come up with going on a full-fledged date, and with this knowledge of convention and of what works in today’s setting, be willing to break the rules too. As long as respect rules between both parties (or everyone, in the case of a group date or a family or friends celebration), then all is well.

The Blue Leaf is a great place to host parties, whether you're looking to entertain corporate clients or throw a get-together for friends and family. We can help you forge new bonds and make new memories, no matter what the occasion. For inquiries, call The Blue Leaf Events Pavilion at 898-BLUE or visit mckinley.theblueleaf.com.ph for more information