Holy Week Do’s

Being a primarily Roman Catholic country, the month of April brings with it many Holy Week traditions that Filipinos participate in, regardless of religion. Along with the many fiestas that mark the celebration of Easter come solemn ceremonies that have become part and parcel of many a town or family’s yearly devotion. Not only do these holy days commemorate many a religious milestone, for the most part, they also mark the full shift into summer, signaling the transition from the busy month of March to a season of exploration, relaxation and creating more space for yourself.

Whatever your holy week tradition may be, participating in events such as Easter Vigil or the Way of the Cross necessitates some etiquette in church. Remember to be respectful and reverential to traditions, both familiar and not, during this time of year.

Follow the dress code.
Though the weather may be calling for bikini tops and leg-baring cut-offs, paying your parish a visit will require you covering up some skin. Dress decently and keep your limbs covered up. Bring a cardigan that you can layer over your sleeveless top or a scarf that you can wrap around bare shoulders.

Stay quiet.
Whether you’re attending mass or walking through the Stations of the Cross, being in a church equals moving from the outside into a more meditative state. Resist the urge to engage in full on chatter with those you’re with, and always make sure that your cell phone is on silent or turned off. A quiet space lends itself well to prayer and contemplation and preventing any disturbances from happening is a sign of deep respect.

Silently participate.
A Catholic ceremony does require active participation of its congregation, with prayers, song and even kneeling, standing up and sitting. If you are an active participant, move along with the missal and listen to the sermon. If you are a visitor and happen to chance upon a mass or service, it is polite to stand along with the rest of the crowd and simply sit when everyone around proceeds to kneel. Reserve any conversations for after the mass, of course, so you may stay solemn along with the rest of the congregation.

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